Three reasons we fail to reach our health and fitness goals (part 2)

Summary

On episode 643 of 40+ Fitness, Coach Allan continues his three-part series on why we fail to reach our health and fitness goals, covering the second reason: we let life get in the way.

Recording while traveling through Europe for a month to celebrate his 10-year anniversary, Allan uses his own trip as a live example of what he calls a “detour,” a period when you step off your normal routine, whether planned or unplanned.

He lays out how to prepare for a detour before it happens, how to plan your way back onto track once it ends, and why resetting your expectations mid-detour matters as much as the plan itself.

Links

  • https://40plusfitness.com

Key Takeaways

  • The second core reason we fail is letting life become an excuse to quit. Allan calls interruptions “detours,” a temporary off-ramp from your health and fitness path, and says the real failure point is treating a detour as a reason to stop entirely.
  • Planned detours (travel, big events) can be prepared for in advance. Before his own month-long trip, Allan researched what gyms, tracks, and activity options would be available on the cruise ship and in each city so he wouldn’t be caught without options.
  • You also need a plan for re-entry, not just for the detour itself. Allan describes blocking calendar time for workouts after he returns and lining up a coach for accountability so the transition back to normal life doesn’t stall out.
  • Unplanned detours (illness, family emergencies, injury) require faster adaptation with less notice. Allan says the process is the same as a planned detour, just compressed: quickly research what food, gym, or activity options are actually available in the new situation.
  • Resetting your expectations during a detour is essential. If a goal was to lose 20 pounds in two months, a month-long disruption may mean it takes three or four months instead, and that’s fine as long as you’re still moving forward.
  • Some progress during a detour beats stopping completely. Allan says scaling back from six planned workouts a week to two or three, rather than zero, keeps momentum alive even when circumstances aren’t ideal.
  • Most people quit specifically when life gets in the way. Allan points out that since life is always going to throw something at you, treating every detour as a reason to stop means never actually reaching your goals.
  • Having a coach for accountability makes navigating detours easier. Allan mentions he’s considering hiring a coach himself for when he returns from his trip, specifically to hold him accountable and push him harder than he’d push himself.

“Some progress is better than none.”

Coach Allan

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Episode Notes

Podcast: 40+ Fitness
Episode: 643
Published: 2024-05-21
Host: Allan Misner (aka Coach Allan), author of The Wellness Roadmap
Guest(s): —, our co-host, Coach Rachel
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