How to approach getting older as pro-aging with Dr. Paul Jarrod Frank

Summary

On episode 451 of 40+ Fitness, Coach Allan sits down with Dr. Paul Jarrod Frank, one of the most sought-after cosmetic dermatologists in the world, known for minimally invasive techniques, a holistic approach to age management, and his book, The Pro Aging Playbook.

Paul argues that “anti-aging” is the wrong frame entirely: aging is a blessing you should embrace, and the goal isn't to fight it but to age well through a lifestyle he calls “grooming.”

The conversation covers the “extrinsic evildoers of aging,” why sun and alcohol tolerance are personal rather than universal, and what he changed after a severe bout of COVID-19.

Links

  • https://www.pfrankmd.com

Key Takeaways

  • “Pro-aging” reframes getting older as something to embrace rather than fight. “Anti-aging” was built as a marketing term decades ago to sell creams and potions on the premise that aging itself is the enemy; Paul argues that starting from a positive frame changes how people actually approach the process.
  • Pro-aging is a lifestyle of “grooming” that goes far beyond skincare. It includes exercise, food choices, the people you surround yourself with, and any cosmetic procedures you choose, all treated as equally legitimate forms of taking care of yourself.
  • The “extrinsic evildoers of aging,” smoking, drinking, sun exposure, inactivity, and poor diet, aren't things to eliminate entirely, they're things to moderate. Paul notes that a lifelong pack-a-day smoker who quits can bring their cancer risk down to near that of a non-smoker within about ten years, which is meant to be encouraging rather than a license to keep smoking.
  • Sun tolerance is tied to skin type, so a blanket “avoid all sun” rule doesn't fit everyone. Fairer skin types need to be far more cautious, while darker, more tan-tolerant skin types can handle more exposure; used with sunscreen, most people don't need to hide from the outdoors entirely.
  • The single biggest lever for pro-aging longevity and appearance is movement, and it doesn't require a formal workout. Taking the stairs instead of the elevator or walking somewhere instead of calling a car counts, because it doubles as informal meditation and time to reconnect with your environment.
  • Filtering who and what you let into your life matters as much as diet or exercise. Paul compares it to screening your kids' friends: negative people and negative content breed negative thinking, and he credits transcendental meditation with teaching him to filter his own mind.
  • Surviving a severe case of COVID-19, including 13 days of a 103-degree fever and time on home oxygen, reinforced that fitness is a genuine line of defense, not just an aesthetic goal. Paul believes his physical condition kept him from needing hospitalization or intubation, and it changed how he felt about releasing a beauty and wellness book in the middle of a pandemic.
  • Dr. Paul Jarrod Frank's three strategies to get and stay well: movement, moving your body daily in whatever form fits your life; meditation, to reset and filter your mind; and investing in family and friends, the relationships that everything else is built on.

“There's one thing that is a guaranteed return on investment, and that is yourself.”

Dr. Paul Jarrod Frank

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